All the 'Why's'

Even though I know and understand that everything, like things, people, feelings, could just left or gone or disappear just like that, but what I don't get is, why it could happen.

I get it if someone wants to leave and just stop talking or don't want to meet or see someone who he/she just met and don't like them that much or someone that he/she used to love very much, because it would be hard to see them while you're trying to move on from them. But what I don't get is, how someone could just leave and stop talking or don't wanting to meet their friends, when they've been friends for more than just 2/3 years. And what I don't get is that, if they are having problems with each other, or just from one side, why not talk about it? Why not try to make it all okay? Why not try to make up? But instead, one or both of them, just stood there and saying nothing to each other. And why is that? Is it because of pride? Or anger? At least if you yell at each other it means that there IS hope for your friendship to get better, but if you stood there and saying nothing, it means that your friendship is over. Fading. Disappear. Vanished.

A friend is not a lover. I mean, you love them, but when you break up with someone, you'll feel sad for awhile and then your friends help you to get through it. But when your friend just leave you, or stop talking to you, who the hell will help you get through the sadness of being forgotten or got ignore by someone who you thought will be there for you, no matter what. 'Cause through anything, at least you thought you'll still have him/her?

Who?

Communication, effort and love goes both ways. You can try everything to save your friendship or relationship, but if the effort only comes from one side, it's pointless to even try. And the time will come when you will stop feeling bad for not talking to people you were once close to. The phone goes both ways and nowaday people could just send an email or text, you don't really have to talk talk, you know. It's not that hard to pick up your phone and say "Hi" and try to talk to your friend, and if there is something you need to tell them, why not just tell them?

For someone with too much pride, its probably a really big deal and its probably really hard and difficult to just talk about it or make up with someone, even their friends, but do you really prefer you lose your friend instead of your pride?

Let go of your pride, even just a little bit. Stop being too stubborn. Find a way. If you want, you can and you will always find a way. A way for anything. And it's better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride.

“When you’re in love, sometimes you have to swallow your pride, and sometimes you have to keep your pride. It’s a balance. But when the relationship is right, you find the balance.” ― Emily Giffin